Wednesday, 22 February 2012

To Love

To love is the easiest thing to do, it is effortless, everything in the universe is worthy of your love. Love is what you do naturally by existing, if love is difficult for you then you have covered it with what it represents for you rather than what it is.

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Saturday, 18 February 2012

The power of love to change a life

The power of love to change a life

As I have stated often, healing your life occurs as a result of a change in pattern, the pattern is how you operate/function in life. The guiding principle of the pattern is a direction, a pathway to the future. Human nature like all things operates according to universal laws, one of them is the conservation of energy, a principle of this law is the path of least effort, to be efficient, not necessarily effective, and expend the least energy. We form patterns of existing that are reflective and in harmony with the direction of our life. The direction and pattern of existence is firmly in place by the time we are six years old.

We will adhere to that direction for the rest of our lives, it is efficient and so we subconsciously follow the path ahead and ‘come what may’, and our future is on that pathway. Unless something happens that forces us off that pathway.

A change in that pathway/direction is a result of a life changing event, something occurs that results in the pattern/direction and future becoming invalid and a reworking or transformation of the pattern occurs and so a new direction and therefore future occurs.

Following is an example of a change of pattern/direction/pathway and future, it is from Milton Erickson a brilliant hypnotherapist and a truly great understander of human nature and the patterns involved. Though he was not involved in the therapeutic undertakings, he recounts these events, as written in the book‘Phoenix – Therapeutic Patterns of Milton H. Erickson’ by David Gordon & Meyers-Anderson.


Milton Erickson tells the story of a man named Joe. Joe was one bad dude.

The thing that influenced me most in shaping my thinking in the matter of psychotherapy is. I was living on a farm in Wisconsin in an area where an eighth grade graduation was the ultimate in education. High school was not approved of. Any boy or girl that went to high school, they were on their way to be educated fools. And that was not approved of. When I was about ten years old my father sent me to the neighboring village about a mile away on an errand. And, of course, as I came into the village, my schoolmates this one summer came rushing to meet me and they told me the exciting news – “Joe is back!” I had never heard of Joe, but they soon informed of who Joe was. Joe, at the age of twelve, a farmer’s son and only child, had been expelled from school because of brutality and beating up the other children, his vandalism, his incorrigible behavior …. and he had stabbed his father’s hogs, and calves and cows and horses with pitch forks.

And he several times tried to set the barn to fire and the house afire. Well, at the age of twelve his parents took him to court, had him committed to the Industrial School for boys. At the age of fifteen the Industrial School paroled him. On the way home Joe committed some burglaries and was picked up by the police and promptly returned to the Industrial School, where he had to stay until he was twenty-one years old. By that time his parents were dead and they disposed of their property leaving Joe without any inheritance. And when he was discharged at age twenty-one he was given a suit and $10, and he headed for Milwaukee …. And shortly arrested for burglary and sent to the Young Men’s Reformatory in Green bay. He served every day of that sentence – in other words, no time off for good behavior. He was released from the reformatory, he went into the town of Green Bay, and committed some more burglaries.

The police picked him up and he was sent to state prison. And when he completed every day of that sentence he was released, went into the village and committed some more burglaries and was arrested by another policeman and given a second term in the state prison. After serving every day of that term, he returned to the village. That day I arrived in the village it was his fourth day in town. Each of the three previous days he had spent standing beside the cash register estimating the day’s take of the merchants at three different stores. And all of them knew that Joe had broken into their store and stolen a lot of things. A man who owned a motor boat had found his motor boat missing. And the morning I arrived Joe was sitting on a bench under the store awning staring into the distance.

Now it happened that there was a farmer about three miles from the village, a farmer who had three hundred acres of company land. He was a very rich man, had beautiful buildings, and to work three hundred acres requires a hired man. And his daughter Susie had graduated from eighth grade, she was about five feet ten, and she could work alongside any man in the community. She could pitch hay, plow fields, help with the butchering … any task she could handle. The entire community felt bad about Susie. She was a good looking girl, she was famous for her housekeeping, her dressmaking and her cooking, and she was an old maid at twenty-three years. And that should not be. Everybody thought Susie was too choosy.

On that particular day when I went to the village on the errand, Susie’s father’s hired hand quit, because of a death in the family and said he would not be back. And Susie arrived, tied up the horse and buggy, came walking down the street. And Joe stood up and blocked her pathway. And Joe looked her up and down very thoroughly, quietly … and Susie with equal poise looked him up and down very thoroughly. Finally Joe said. “Can I take you to the dance next Friday?” Now the village always had a weekly dance on Friday nights for all the young people. And Susie was very much in demand at those dances and she regularly drove in and attended the dance. And when Joe said, “Can I take you to the dance next Friday?” Susie said coolly, “You can if you’re a gentleman.”

Joe stepped out of her way. She performed her errand, went back. And the next morning the merchants were very glad to find boxes full of stolen goods at their front doors. And the motor boat had returned. And Joe was seen walking down the highway towards Susie’s father’s farm. Word soon got around that he had asked Susie’s father for the job of hired hand, and he was hired. And made a magnificent wage of $15 per month. He was allowed to have his meals in the kitchen with the family. And Susie’s father said, “We’ll fix a room for you in the barn.”

Joe turned out to be the best hired hand that community had ever seen. Joe worked from sun up to long past sun down, seven days a week. Joe was six feet three, a very able bodied man and, of course, Joe always walked to the village on Friday nights to attend the dance. Susie drove in to attend the dance. And much to the ire of the other young men, Susie usually danced with Joe every dance. And Joe’s size made then wary of pointing out to Joe the error of his way by appropriating Susie. In just about a year the community was buzzing with the gossip because Susie and Joe were seen going out Saturday evening for a drive, or ‘sparking’, as the term was used. And there was even more gossip the next day – on Sunday - Susie and Joe went to church together.

And thereafter for some months, Joe and Susie went for a drive every Saturday evening and to church on Sunday. And after some months of this, Susie and Joe were married. And Joe moved from the barn into the house. He was still the best hired man imaginable and Joe and his father-in-law. With some aid of Susie, ran the farm. And Joe was such a good worker that when a neighbor got sick, Joe was the first one to show up to help with the chores. And they soon forgot all about Joe’s history of being an ex convict.

Now when I decided to go to high school a lot of the neighbors were displeased. But Joe encouraged me to go to high school and encouraged a lot of other kids to go to high school. I decided to go to university – the neighbors groaned about that Erickson kid becoming an educated fool and Joe encouraged me to go to college. He thought it was a very excellent idea for all young people to go to college. And Joe’s popularity in the neighborhood was such that he was elected to the school board. And at the first meeting of the school board all the parents were there. And Joe opened the meeting by saying, “You folks have elected me president of the school board. You gave me the most votes and that means president. Now I don’t know much about school. I know all of you want your kids to grow up decent kids with an education so they can live better lives than working from sun up to long after sun down seven days a week … and when you educate your children forget about taxes – hire the best teachers, and get the best school supplies, the best books.” And Joe was elected to the school board repeatedly. And Joe’s reputation literally blossomed anew from the day he hired out for $15 a month, which was later raised to $30 a month.

Eventually Susie’s parents died and Susie inherited the farm. Joe and Susie had no children but Joe had no trouble getting hired men. He went to the state reformatory for young men and asked for any young, promising ex-convict from the reformatory. The reformatory was for first time offenders.

Some of those men lasted a day, a week, a month, and some for months. As long as they worked Joe kept them around and treated them well. And he served to rehabilitate quite a number of ex convicts. When I got my job as state psychologist for Wisconsin to examine all inmates in penal and correctional institutions, Joe was very happy for me, and Joe told me. “There’s an old record at the Industrial School that you ought to read, an old record at the reformatory that you ought to read, an old record at the state prison that you ought to read.”

I knew what Joe meant, so I read the Industrial School record. It was very, very violent, Joe had been incorrigible, destructive and brutal in relationship to the other boys there and he had been kept in solitary confinement most of the time from the age of twelve to twenty-one. And his record at Green Bay reformatory was equally black. Joe had been very combative, aggressive. He was kept in solitary, took his meals in solitary. The guards were afraid of him. And when Joe was allowed out of his cell to exercise, two husky guards his size or larger walked through the exercise yard with him … one guard ten feet to the right, the other ten feet to the left. If Joe were to jump on one of them the second guard would have the chance to jump to the rescue of his fellow guard.

The record at the State prison was very, very black. Joe displayed his combativeness, his aggressiveness, his capacity to beat up fellow convicts and he served most of the time in the dungeon. The dungeon was eight feet by eight feet by eight feet, the floor sloped toward the door. It was a very thick, heavy wooden door with a small slot in the door at the base of the door and once a day, usually at one or two A.M a tray of food would slip quietly through that slot. And once a week the cell was hosed out for sanitation purposes. Now I’ve been in that dungeon … it issound proof and light proof. And living in thatdarkness and silence practically all of his two terms in state prison is pretty severe punishment. And Joe never got a day off. When they did take him out of the dungeon they locked him in a solitary cell. He was exercised by two guards accompanying him, all alone in the exercise yard.

Now after the first sentence had been served at the prison, he went to the village and committed robberies and was sent back to the prison and they were all afraid of Joe. And the fellow convicts who I interviewed who knew Joe told me very earnestly. “That Joe is a bad one!” and they were afraid of him. And all the psychotherapy Joe received was; “You can if you’re a gentleman”.
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Joe had a reason to change and create a new life, in an instant he became a new man.

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Emotional Freedom Technique for LOVE

Emotional Freedom Technique for LOVE

by Sherri Carter, MS, ATH Co-Editor of PsychoSpiritual

Editor’s Note from Sherri Carter: I love Emotional Freedom Technique! It really gets to the root issues, helps to release limiting beliefs while creating new emotional attachments to new truths of possibility! read the rest


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Monday, 13 February 2012

The Need for Acceptance

The Need for Acceptance

“Knowing others is wisdom; knowing the self is enlightenment.”
– Tao Te Ching

Before we are born, whilst we are in the womb, we are part of the womb, part of the mother, all connected, an intermingling of chemicals, energy and whatever else is there. When we are born, a physical connection is severed. And we breathe to obtain oxygen and we suckle at the breast for nutrition. Our senses pick up more sensations and we do not yet have the understanding that we are ourselves, that we are separate. We are very aware of how wonderful we feel. We are very aware of being, but we are unaware that what we see is not us. As a baby we feel that everything in our world is us, we cannot distinguish between out there and in here.

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Healing

Wednesday, 25 January 2012

The Power of Attitude

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Saturday, 14 January 2012

Top 10 Tips for Healing Your Love

Top 10 Tips for Healing Your Love

Top 10 Tips for Healing Your Love
by Wendy Strgar, Good Clean Love, Inc.

Recognizing that our relationships are our most gentle teachers in life is a great way to approach the work involved in staying with them. We too often don’t value and trust the huge amounts of resources that we have invested into them and are too willing to dispose of them before really digging into the work before us. While some relationships were a bad idea from the day they started, the majority are actually perfectly designed to help us grow into the best people we can be. I have been sharing these love tips for years and consistently hear back from our friends and customers that doing the work of love rewards them in ways they couldn’t have imagined. Remember that often the feeling of hitting the wall in love lives in us only moments before a breakthrough that gives meaning to our promises. Make this New Year full of love.

1. The truth is that intimacy begets intimacy. Studies support the strong correlation between a happy relationship and the frequency of sex. Sexual intimacy acts as the glue in long-term relationships, like pouring cement into a foundation inspiring a deep union that paves the way for more emotional closeness and richer communication.

2. Communication issues are often at the heart of a relationship impasse. This is because we all mistakenly believe that we can tell someone how things are. Truly successful communication actually takes place in listening. Listening is such a powerful form of communication that most people cannot tell it apart from feeling loved.

3. It is easy for couples to confuse co-existing with truly showing up for each other. They appear the same when we grow accustomed to not allowing ourselves to need and be needed. Co-existing doesn’t have any of the stickiness factors that showing up does because it happens out of habit, not choice. Truly showing up translates into the safety that you bring to every other part of your relationship.

4. You are what you love, not what loves you back. This is a profoundly freeing recognition that allows you to experience the depth and breadth of your capacity for love. It is a literal revolution for your heart to open up to the most instructive emotional experience we are capable of. Emotional intelligence develops in us with our capacity to love. No one can take that from any of us and love teaches without the need for reciprocity.

5. Relationships can only move forward when both people have two feet in. You don’t ever really get to see what your relationship can become if you or your partner keep one foot out the door. It is an entirely different relationship when both partners are engaged and really committed to making their promises work, one that you can’t even imagine when you are holding the door ajar with one foot.

6. Take responsibility for your erotic self. No one else can heal it or make it work. Begin with getting to know your pleasure anatomy. Freud once famously commented, “The only thing about masturbation to be ashamed of is doing it badly.” Learning about your own pleasure response and charting a map to your own orgasm is empowering and will open you to couples pleasure like nothing else.

7. Your feelings should not be allowed to define your story. Feelings are like weather systems that provide fertile information for your life, but they are too changeable and impermanent to trust as a compass for what you are doing in your relationships. Sometimes the most challenging work in a relationship is the very thing needed to strengthen the resolve in your capacity to love.

8. Your attention is the most powerful change agent you can bring to your relationships. Consider how you attend to the details of your financial life, or your career path- your intimate relationships deserve at least that much of your daily attention. They will not thrive without the consistency and patience that all growth requires.

9. Introduce the required physical conversation into your relationship. Stop talking about it and let your body’s wisdom lead you into a language of touch that often has the power to communicate what is behind the words. A physical, but not necessarily sexual conversation is the open door to a more emotionally connected relationship.

10. Your thoughts are the blueprint for your relationship. Your partner knows what you are thinking, even when you don’t say it. We often take ourselves and our relationships too seriously or worse still, hold them hostage to our unspoken doubts. Try for a little levity and lean more heavily on our innate capacity for kindness. Cultivate thoughts that bring you closer to the relationship you envision and vigilantly weed out the ones that don’t.

If you’d like to download these tips, please partake in this free PDF file.

Wendy Strgar

Wendy Strgar is a loveologist who writes and lectures on Making Love Sustainable, a green philosophy of relationships which teaches the importance of valuing the renewable resources of love and family. Wendy helps couples tackle the questions and concerns of intimacy and relationships, providing honest answers and advice. Wendy lives in Eugene, OR with her husband, a psychiatrist, and their four children.


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Friday, 13 January 2012

What is Reality?

What is Reality?

Posted: Friday, January 13, 2012

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What is reality? we may say that there are many different levels or dimensions of reality and whatever level of reality you are in that is okay. Actors in a TV series are displaying story lines of characters that script writers have written. They come together in a studio and play out their roles. As viewers what do we see? We see a TV screen, a rather small object, and we watch the unfolding drama. We laugh, we cry, we get angry and we can empathize and identify with the lives on that screen. We can discuss the goings on of the characters of the show with our colleges at work and friends and partners. We discuss and contemplate the emotions and feelings of our TV friends. Their lives and behaviors and consequences seem real and we know it is not real, though I fear some people find it hard to appreciate that the actors are not the characters, that is, the characters are make believe, an illusion.

Sometimes actors get too identified with their character that they are portraying and they begin to feel that they are the character. Perhaps the character (especially the hero type) is more appealing to the actor than himself. They start to believe they are the character. The image becomes reality and this is what we do, we believe we are our image.
An image that we portray to the world and we imagine other people perceiving us in the way the image is intended. Images communicating to images, making lots of noise and much ado about nothing. And that is totally okay, there is nothing right or wrong about that. We all do it. It is just another layer built on preceding layers, just the very tip of the iceberg. If we are aware of the layers that are underneath, then we will be happy for we know more of our realities. But if we think that we are only the outermost or the topmost layer, then happiness etc will elude us and we will be deluded. The more layers we are aware of then the more we know of ourselves.

Enlightenment is knowing all of ourself. ‘Know thy self!’ has been echoed throughout our history by mystics and sages and yet how many of us truly want ‘to know myself’? Not just the behavior or why we do the things we do, not understand, not to know a small part of our self, but to Know all.

Knowing ourselves has been acknowledged by all the mystics and sages of the past as the key to enlightenment. Knowing ourselves is a wonderful and mysterious journey filled with awe. There is nothing to be afraid of and yet what prevents us is the fear of the unknown. More correctly it is the fear of ourself that creates the fear of the unknown. Our identity, the ego is the creator of this fear. Our ego fears its own creation, ego fears and is terrified of nothingness. It is terrified that if it reverses direction, instead of going outwards but going inwards it will end up at the beginning. At the starting point of itself, and what then but nothingness, oblivion. The ego will try to prevent you going in that direction, it will produce fear and terror, all fabricated. Illusion, trickery and sleight of hand, but feeling real nevertheless. It works and we simply regain our forward, outward, away from direction, it seems so logical, so logical, so logical, time moves forward, goes from here to there, let’s go that way.

And so we know little of our self, a single drop of water in all the oceans of the world and as we age we know less. The most liberating experience you can have on this plane of existence is reversing direction, diving in, going down and discovering what is there, passing through levels of awareness, becoming more as you do. And nothingness is the gateway, the door, the entry between soul and out here, simply a passageway, pass through and you have enlightenment. But your purpose is not to stay there, for that is what it is, it is all and complete and whole. Your purpose is to be aware of this and then move back through the passageway and up through the levels, with the only knowledge there is, the knowledge of you. You may choose to remove yourself from the noise and illusion of our materialistic world and become a recluse and spend as much time as possible inside and that is okay or you may do exactly what you were doing before and that is okay. Or anything in between.

You will now know more than the tip of the iceberg, you will have been a part of the iceberg, the totality of the iceberg and now there is nothing to fear. You know. What next then is up to you, your ego being just as important as the bliss, will have the ability to decide but decide on knowledge and truth rather than fear. There will be more calmness, a different type of calmness a calmness that is ever present, more of a peacefulness really, even when you are very actively involved in any sort of pursuit or action.

Here is an apt Zen saying, "Before Enlightenment chop wood carry water, after Enlightenment, chop wood carry water." The things that need doing are the same as before. What is different is that you are fully present doing the actions and it feels good doing them because you have chosen to do them. You appreciate, you love, you see illusion for illusion and you stop being illusion. All your uplifting strong emotions are small representations of soul. But words are just words.

So what is reality? Don’t we want to know what reality is? Reality is not meaning, not purpose, not searching, not seeking, not you, not I, not me, not us, not we, not them, not this, not that, not this and that, not time, not space, not boundaries, not love, not hate, not desire, not wants, not needs, not everything, not nothing, not anything.

Reality is a construct depending on where we observe and perceive our experience from -

  1. From a cell in our body
  2. From our inner mind
  3. From our ego – by far the most common and therefore universally accepted by mankind
  4. From mankind as a specie
  5. From life on the planet
  6. From the planet
  7. From the moon
  8. From the centre of a galaxy
  9. From the universe
  10. From outside the universe
  11. From a web that has no weaver
By Philip Martin


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Wednesday, 11 January 2012

Simple Carrot Test helps you:

Simple Carrot Test helps you:
Find out how you can heal yourself

Harold Fiske in the National Examiner, 2/18/82, formerly published at http://thoughtscreate.com/articleexam.html

Well-known healer Charles R. Collins says you don't need faith healers to get well - you can do it yourself using the incredible power of the human mind.

And instead of dealing in vague mystical terms about the power of the mind, Collins says he can offer living proof that mental power [i]s a source of life and death, of sickness and health!
Collins, 47, lives in seclusion in Virgin, Utah, about 150 miles north of Las Vegas. It was in Virgin in the early '70s that Collins first discovered the mind is an instrument that can be tuned and controlled as easily as a musician can tune and control a fine instrument.

The result of mind control, says Collins, is amazing benefits to health and peace of mind. Collins says after he cleansed himself of disease and shed 80 pounds he decided to spread his message to others.
He wrote a book, The ABCs of Life, and opened a practice as a [fa]ith healer in Miami in the mid-70s. The basis of his philosophy is [sh]own in a simple experiment, he says.
Read the whole article here

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Monday, 9 January 2012

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Sincerely
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Sunday, 8 January 2012

Time for Stillness

From the inner Journey Emails by http://www.higherawareness.com

TIME FOR STILLNESS

"We're so engaged in doing things to achieve purposes of outer value that we forget that the inner value, the rapture that is associated with being alive, is what it's all about."
-- Joseph Campbell

The sages all say that the path to liberation is found in entering the stillness within. To experience that stillness, we need to be willing to regularly stop the activity for a while. How do we do this in a busy life? We set our priorities. Perhaps it means giving up a TV program or using a coffee break to grab a few moments of solitude. Perhaps we have to ask our partner, relative or neighbour to give us 30 minutes of time away from the kids.
If we really want something, we can make it happen.

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-- Doug King

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The power of choice

The Power of Choice

A choice is a decision made between this and that , an acceptance of one thing and a rejection of the other. A choice is the beginning of a set of actions or a step in a process. As such it is evolutionary in that, once the choice is made, that is the end of one step and the next step is presented, that is, taking the action of the decision.
Choices or rather making choices are immensely empowering. When you have made a decision, (which is the acknowledgement making a choice) you have the experience that you are in control, for it is you that made the choice. All choices/decisions are empowering, the act of making a choice is always an empowering act. Don't confuse the act of making a choice with the outcome or result of the choice, that is a separate matter. Let's for the moment simply concentrate on choices. It is simply a fact, that when you make a choice you feel empowered and in control, no matter how fleeting the feeling is.
We can luxuriate in this feeling and give ourselves credit for making a choice, which will empower ourselves even more, for when we make a choice, we grow, we evolve, we become more. Think about it, imagine if you never make a choice !. It is not possible is it, if you don't make a choice - you don't exist. Choices are to be revered as our greatest gift to ourselves.
By Philip Martin

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Life Patterns, the Secret to Emotional Freedom

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The Joy of Stillness

The Joy of Stillness : An Exclusive Renegade Health Article by Dr. J.E. Williams
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Yoga and meditation are great ways to ‘unplug’ from our digitally connected world, which leaves us little time for quiet.
Resident Medical Authority: J. E. Williams, OMD, FAAIM
On the first day of 2012, I went to the beach. The Gulf of Mexico was calm and reflective, and warm enough that I could take in the winter sun. During the holidays, I don’t go to cocktail parties, or raw vegan celebrations, or drum circles. This is because in order to have time to write – a solitary deliberate excursion into creativity – I require absolute quiet. To have time to think, a prerequisite to good writing, I need silence. For meditation, not only does the practice foster stillness, it requires utmost quite. And, as a clinician, I’ve found that healing requires all three: stillness, quiet, and a silent mind.
In our digitally connected world, shuttled about by cars, planes, and high-speed trains, where is the time for quiet? Or, for healing? Or, for balance?
As Americans, we spend too much time in front of a screen. The average American logs at least eight hours each day sitting and watching television or sitting and browsing the Internet. Electronic communication is almost instant. Texting and emailing, and social networking reaches friends, family, and followers across the globe. But, when do we find time for ourselves?
Read the whole article here

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Life Patterns, the Secret to Emotional Freedom

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Friday, 6 January 2012

THE LOVE CURE for CANCER and other DISEASES

This is from a very good website which I encourage you to visit if you have cancer. Visit the site here http://www.health-science-spirit.com/index.html
Cheers
Philip Martin

THE LOVE CURE

for CANCER and other DISEASES

by Walter Last

Love may be the missing factor in the treatment of many diseases. With cancer, for instance, psychological therapy has been shown to have a far greater success rate than any other properly evaluated therapy. Fear has a major negative impact on cancer patients. There is also a close relationship between fears often present subconsciously and breathing problems as well as heart disease. Love is the opposite of fear.

Emotional and psychological factors may well be the main reason why various therapies work with some patients but not with others. Releasing past emotional hurts and resentments is definitely good and helpful with any kind of healing, but it may not be enough if positive feelings remain missing. Therefore, the ideal is a holistic combination of appropriate therapies on other levels with additional comprehensive emotional therapy.

After many years of working and experimenting with a wide range of therapies, I have come to the conclusion that some of the most important factors in restoring health and wellbeing are the twins of love and joy. For our emotional body, regular doses of these as well as other positive feelings, are as essential as vitamins are for the physical body, otherwise we develop emotional deficiency symptoms which can eventually disable physical functions. Most of us can remember a time when we were madly in love. Love, then, was not just a mental concept, but also an actual bodily sensation and it made us feel invincible. I believe that we really can become invincible in regard to disease by learning to feel this way again and this time on a regular basis as a way of life.

Learning to Love Again

Obviously it is not possible to fall in love with someone on a regular basis, but it is possible learning to experience the feeling of love as a conscious exercise. Love has traditionally been associated with the heart. Of course, it is not really the heart muscle itself that makes us feel love but rather an energy vortex or chakra in our aura that is centred at the middle of the breastbone. In order to feel love and increase our capacity to love we need to stimulate this heart centre by focusing our attention on it. Because of the specific location of the heart centre, diseases in the chest area should respond most readily to this therapy. This applies especially to breast cancer, which has a strong emotional and relationship component.

For most of us, learning to feel love as a way of life does not come easy and requires a commitment to an exercise program. It will be especially difficult for most males, while many women may take to it quite naturally. In the following you will find some useful exercises. Experiment and continue to practise those that you find best to generate a feeling sensation in your body.

Feeling is an energy, and energy follows thought or consciousness. This means the most basic requirement for activating our heart centre is to keep our attention focused on it. Later, when it is easy for us to feel, we can just keep a small part of our attention there while going about our daily business. You may find that it is very difficult to feel anything when you are tired or otherwise low in energy.

Therefore, select a period of the day for these feeling exercises when you are reasonably energetic or possibly energise yourself beforehand with some light physical exercises combined with vigorous breathing in fresh air. Shaking all limbs and the whole body, as well as aerobic dancing to lively music are especially suitable to energise oneself. Another possibility is a slow walk in fresh air with eyes to the ground, as monks may have done in a monastery garden.

Breathing into the Heart

Becoming conscious of our breath is one of the easiest ways to generate a feeling sensation inside our body and to keep our attention focused. Sit, lie or walk quietly and mentally follow your breath as it gently moves in and out. Breathe through the nose. Become aware that the outflowing breath is somewhat warmer than the incoming breath. After a while begin to pause for a second or two between inhalation and exhalation. Feel a light pressure in the middle of your chest during this pause. When you can distinctly feel it, focus again on feeling the warmth of the outgoing breath.

Now combine this warmth with the light pressure felt in the middle of the chest. This is the location of the heart centre. Keep your attention focused on it and gradually try to intensify the feeling of warmth and spread it all over the chest, but especially towards the location of any health problem, such as a breast tumour. When you feel the warmth, you can disregard the pressure. This warmth inside your chest is very pleasant and makes you feel cosy, cared for and protected. Intensify any of these feelings if and when you get them. Try to create them deliberately by using your imagination and recalling other situations when you felt this way, possibly when relaxing in a warm bath while listening to soft music. You may find that you can perceive feeling sensations more easily and with greater intensity if you exhale very slowly and gently.

When you can do this exercise successfully, you can also use it to keep your attention on the heart centre during your daily activities. You may quickly learn to keep part of your attention focused inside you chest while performing routine tasks, although you are likely to forget it during more demanding mental activities. That does not matter. If you ask your subconscious mind to remind you to do the exercise whenever conveniently possible, it will eventually oblige and may tell you a hundred times a day to focus again. If you are somewhat tired it may even be easier to generate a feeling sensation during activities rather than by lying down and closing your eyes, which may cause you to drift off to sleep.

If it helps you to focus, you may also imagine your incoming breath being rose coloured or bright green and you may see this colour intensify in the chest area with each successive breath. Another possibility is to put one hand on the chest to feel a light pressure or to press lightly with one or several fingers at the middle of the breastbone. You may also experiment with a different breath imagination. Imagine your breath moving through the middle of the breastbone. Again, feel the slight pressure and then the developing warmth. For some, this exercise produces stronger sensations. When you are somewhat tired it will be better to do these exercises with your eyes open and possibly even while slowly moving or walking.

Feeling Love

After successfully practising the breathing exercise for some time, start experimenting with the following suggestions to see which one suits you best. Eventually you may use all of them at one time or another depending on arising opportunities.

It will be easier to feel a love sensation if one already is in a loving relationship, or as a mother with a baby or as an animal lover with some puppies to care for. In this case you may just look lovingly at the chosen object while doing the breathing exercise and you may find it quite easy to convert the warmth in your chest into a feeling sensation of love. If you are not so lucky, you may recall in your memory a time or incident when you actually felt love. Vividly imagine this time and then intensify a sensation of love when it arises. Then forget the actual incident and only hold fast to that feeling inside your chest.

A further possibility is to look lovingly at something grand or beautiful. This may be a tree, a flower, a picture, clouds, the sky or a person. Soak in the beauty and really appreciate it. Then send that feeling of appreciation back to the adored object. All the time keep focusing your attention on the breath in the chest centre and intensify any arising positive feeling. You may do the same by listening to some soul-stirring music. Eventually you can start feeling and sending a silent appreciation of love to anyone you come in contact with and over a distance also to someone with whom you have a disagreement or a past problem. When you tend to plants, watering, transplanting or sowing, project onto them your feeling of love or appreciation. You can really do that anytime at any activity. Your main problem will be to remind yourself again and again to do it.

If you have difficulty generating a feeling sensation of love then try to feel compassion. This is also centred in the heart area. Look at or imagine pictures of suffering individuals. When you can feel and radiate compassion, try to change this to a feeling of love or a combination of love and compassion.

A highly recommended exercise is as follows. Whenever you meet someone or think of someone smile and silently say: "God bless you" while feeling a wave of love or compassion radiating from your heart centre. Another exercise is to think of someone and extend your arms with palms forward in the so-called Madonna gesture. Again, smile and feel the love or compassion in your heart. During the day try to remember this feeling of love in your heart and centre on it.

Feeling Joy

Joy is the twin of love in helping us to live a healthy and fulfilled life. As with love, it is not easy to feel joyful as a real body sensation, especially if we do not have anything special to be joyful about. As with love and compassion, joy may be felt in the heart centre as a sensation of exuberance. However, a quieter form of joy close to bliss can be felt at the forehead centre. This is related to the pituitary gland behind the middle of the forehead. Concentrating on it during deep meditation can generate a feeling of bliss. It can also be felt as a quiet kind of blissful joy when focusing on the pituitary gland or forehead centre during a breathing exercise. For working with this and the other centres mentioned in the following see The Chakra System in the article on Bio-energies.

As the breath does not flow into the brain, you imagine that the inhaled air is combined with a life-force energy, also called prana or chi, which you can separate from the air molecules and lead to any place in your body where you want to concentrate it. You do this with your will; just imagine it being so, the prana flowing upwards from the nose into the pituitary gland behind the forehead. If you can visualise colours, you may see the forehead centre being filled with an indigo-coloured prana.

As with the breathing into the heart, first try to feel a light pressure partly due to the focus of your attention and partly to the accumulating prana. Again try to feel warmth or tingling during the slow and gentle exhalation. To focus on the correct point it helps greatly if you close your eyes and turn them inward and upward as if looking into the brain at a 45-degree angle. When you can easily do this, you may even be able to just imagine looking upwards and inwards and feel a light pressure in the pituitary area while you have your eyes open and are engaged in other activities.

When you are able to feel the pressure or warmth, start smiling inwardly and direct this smile to the pituitary gland. As you keep smiling, you may gradually feel a sensation of joy and happiness spreading from your head into your body. If you have already learned to feel a love sensation in your heart centre, combine this love feeling with the joy spreading from your head into a unified feeling of elation. The natural awakening of the forehead centre is stimulated by using the 'mind's eye' as in creative visualisation and imaginative and intuitive thinking.

Feeling Connected and Peaceful

We can learn to overcome the stresses of daily life and live instead in a condition of profound inner peace by frequently focusing our attention at the top of our head. This will be invaluable with all stress-related diseases and conditions and also helps to energise the body in a pleasant way.

Relax, close your eyes and imagine a stream of white light entering the top of your head. Try to feel as well as see it. However, feeling it is more important than only seeing it. Again, it may help at first to focus on feeling a light pressure and warmth at the top of the head, possibly aided by leading the breath prana to this point. As with previous feeling exercises exhale very slowly and gently. Imagine feeling more and more peaceful, a deep peace beginning to fill and surround your body and mind. In addition, watch for a feeling of being connected to All That Is, to the Universe, to God, however you want to call it. If you can feel or imagine feeling something like this, try to intensify the feeling.

When you are able to feel the peace or connectedness during the exercise, you may start focusing part of your attention on the top of your head and feel at peace during your daily activities. Try also to keep part of your attention on the top of your head while you try to feel the joy behind the forehead and the love at the heart centre. Alternatively, focus in sequence on the top of the head, the forehead and the heart. Eventually, you may even try to focus on all three simultaneously and feel peaceful, quietly joyful and loving at the same time.

For another recommended exercise have a look at the picture of the 'Magic Presence' in the Spirituality file. You may regard this as your Personal God Presence, also called I Am Presence, Oversoul or Monad. By frequently focusing on this Presence, your connection to it gradually becomes stronger which then leads to rapid spiritual development. You cultivate this connection by generating a feeling of love or joy in your heart and then sending it through the top of your head to your imaginary God presence. Immediately you feel an even stronger energy of love, peace and protection entering your crown centre from above and beginning to fill your head and your body. Do this as often as you can.

The Throat Centre

The throat chakra is the centre for our creative expression. It also regulates the functions of the thyroid and parathyroid glands. As with the other centres, you can activate or balance it with breathing exercises that let you feel warmth and other expressions of energy in the throat. However, The proper development of this centre, as with all the other centres, depends on properly using it in daily life. This involves mainly creative use of sounds such as speaking the truth and giving kind or helpful advice. The opposite activities, such as gossipping, uninvited criticism and also not speaking out due to resentment, greatly harm this centre.

Singing is very beneficial for this centre, also the chanting of mantras and especially the OM or AUM sound. Such chanting or intonation is best done in a way that you can feel the sound vibrations in parts of your head such as the lips, cheeks or ears or between your upper and lower teeth.

The Solar Plexus

The abdominal area is a storage and dumping ground for resentments and other unreleased and unprocessed emotions. Negative feelings, such as anger or fear commonly arise from here as a reaction to past events. This may make us feel insecure and vulnerable, a feeling that the outside world is hostile or dangerous and we have to fight for what we want or to protect ourselves. Together with stress and other factors, this can lead to diseases of the digestive system and also makes healing of such diseases more difficult. This is especially a problem with cancer of these organs.

The solar plexus is a nerve centre behind the stomach and the seat of another important feeling centre. Focusing on the solar plexus centre helps to make us feel more radiant and powerful and, with this, safe and protected, we also 'have the guts' to do what we need to do. To activate this centre breathe into it until you feel at first the pressure and then the warmth spreading all through your abdomen. Intensify the sensation of pleasant, relaxing warmth that makes you feel safe and protected.

Accumulating Breath Energy

To breathe into the abdomen or any other area where you cannot feel the breath directly, imagine that the inhaled breath consists of two parts, the physical air molecules as well as a breath energy or prana. During inhalation the lungs automatically separate the breath energy from the air molecules. You only exhale the 'empty' air while the prana flows to where you lead it with your conscious attention.

To energise the abdomen, you imagine and try to feel the energy moving directly into the abdomen during inhalation. During exhalation you imagine that you press the energy down so that it becomes compressed at the bottom of the abdomen or any other organ that you want to energise. With each successive breath more compressed energy accumulates until the target area feels sufficiently energised. You may feel this as warmth, tingling, pressure or any other sensation.

If you can visualise colours, you may try to see the energy in a colour selected according to the rules of colour therapy. To feel more energetic, for instance, you may imagine a golden yellow and for pain relief or sedation blue. Alternatively, you may visualise the colour that is typically associated with the main energy vortex of area in question. For the top of the head this is violet or purple, for the forehead indigo, the throat centre blue, the heart green, the solar plexus golden yellow, the sacral centre orange and the base of the spine red.

Sexual Energy

The sacral energy centre is located between the navel and the pubic bone. It is weak or distorted with all diseases of the lower abdomen or of the pelvic organs, mainly involved with reproductive functions and elimination. You will be able to heal diseases of these organs much better when activating and balancing this centre by sending it energy and love. As for the solar plexus, you may do this by directly breathing into the lower abdomen.

The typical feeling sensation of the sexual energy may be described as melting orgasmic streamings in the lower abdomen. After you have activated the sacral centre with the accumulating breath energy, you may be able to generate these orgasmic streamings by gently and rhythmically squeezing your buttocks or better, contracting the perineum. Try also to walk slowly with a relaxed, contemplative mind. With all of these methods, focus your attention on any arising sensations in the sacral area and intensify whatever you feel. Lead any sensations in the sexual organs into the lower abdomen. The energy colour related to this area is orange.

If you have a sexual partner you may be able to generate these feelings by being sexually connected for a long time but with only minimal activity, mainly of a caressing nature. It is fine to remain connected with a soft penis. If the orgasmic feelings become stronger, try to lead them upwards, spreading through the upper abdomen into the heart area where you may feel them as love, which you may then beam back onto your partner. For further information on sexual problems and sexual therapy see Sexuality as well as Spiritual Sex.

The Base Centre

The centre at the base of the spine reflects our will to live, to be incarnated in the present body. It also relates us to the earth energies, makes us feel grounded. Work on this centre is required if we are losing the will to live. In addition to improving the mental, emotional or biological conditions that led to this situation, we can bring this centre back to health with activities that bring us in closer contact with the earth energies. Gardening is well suited for this, walking barefoot, lying naked on the moist grass or dancing barefoot on the grass or the beach, witnessing and admiring great natural events, such as thunderstorms, waterfalls or sunsets.

Spiritual growth

In addition to healing a specific problem, activating and balancing our chakra system is highly beneficial as part of our spiritual growth. If we do not have a major problem in an area related to a particular chakra, then we can assume that the lower chakras will work normally and do not need much attention. If we have a strong will to live and normal sexual and digestive functions, then the three related chakras will also be adequate. The same applies to the throat chakra. If we usually speak our mind in a reasonably kind and helpful way, then this centre will be fairly developed as well.

Therefore, most of our attention should go to the three remaining higher centres, the heart, forehead and crown chakra. Of these it is advisable to start working first on the heart chakra. Once we can feel the love in our heart and frequently activate this feeling and radiate it out or to other parts of our body, we have made the most important step in healing ourselves and are well advanced on the spiritual path.

Conclusion

If you have a disease or health problem in a specific organ or area of the body, you can now supply it with all the energy and emotional support that it needs for healing, in addition to the nutritional and other support that you may provide. On a regular basis fill yourself with love and then mentally send it with an inner smile to the organ in need of healing. In addition breathe more energy into it or lead it there from the storage area behind the navel. Feel it getting warm or tingling or just feeling good. At the same time see it filled with a brilliant white healing light. Intensify the vision and the feeling and hold it for a long time. Know that you are being healed.

In addition to feeling joy, love and all the other good feelings again and energise yourself with healing life-force, at some stage on your road to health and wellness it will become necessary to clean out and release old negative feelings. These may still linger as resentments, fear or guilt in your memory or cause muscle contractions and energy blockages as well as crystallisations in body tissues related to specific feeling memories.

If you do not want to pay a professional to help and guide you with this, it will be best to join or form a small healing group where you can learn and practise various emotional release techniques. Becoming loving and positive again before jumping into a pool of freshly released negativity helps to protect you from wallowing for a long time in misery. It also makes the important task of forgiving yourself and everyone else for perceived past trespasses so much easier and more effective.

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